Your Guide to Meaningful, Relaxed, and Authentic Wedding Photos
Introduction
You’re newly engaged—congratulations! This is such an exciting chapter in your love story. There’s so much to celebrate, so much to plan, and so many memories to make. As you dive into the whirlwind of wedding planning, there’s one experience I always recommend to my couples: the engagement session.
If you’re on the fence about whether or not to book an engagement session, you’re not alone. Maybe you’re feeling camera-shy, or you’re not sure if you need “more” photos before the big day. But as a Pittsburgh-based wedding photographer who’s worked with dozens of couples throughout Pennsylvania and the East Coast, I can tell you—an engagement session is so much more than just a photo shoot. It’s a celebration of this unique moment in your journey together, and it can truly transform your wedding photography experience.
Let’s dive into why every couple should have an engagement session, what you can expect, and how it can help you get the most out of your wedding day.
What Is an Engagement Session, Really?
An engagement session is a relaxed, fun, pre-wedding photo shoot that’s all about you and your partner—no pressure, no timelines, just genuine moments. It’s a chance to slow down, enjoy each other’s company, and capture the excitement and anticipation of your engagement.
Unlike the fast pace of your wedding day, your engagement session is all about comfort. You pick the location, the outfits, and the vibe. Want to wander through downtown Pittsburgh, revisit the park where you got engaged, or just hang out at your favorite coffee shop? The possibilities are endless—and the experience is all about celebrating your unique story.
Why Book an Engagement Session? (Spoiler: It’s Not Just About the Photos)
1. Get Comfortable in Front of the Camera
Let’s be honest—most of us aren’t models, and being in front of a camera can feel a little awkward at first. Engagement sessions are the perfect way to shake off those nerves. You’ll get to know me (your photographer!), learn what it feels like to be photographed, and discover how easy and fun it can be.
By the time your wedding day arrives, you’ll feel like a pro. You’ll know what to expect, and those wedding portraits will feel natural—not forced.
2. Build a Real Relationship with Your Photographer
Your wedding photographer is with you on one of the biggest days of your life. Having a genuine connection makes a world of difference. Engagement sessions are a chance for us to get to know each other, build trust, and create a comfortable, relaxed atmosphere.
I want you to feel like you’re hanging out with a friend—not a stranger with a camera. That comfort shines through in your photos.
3. Celebrate Your Unique Love Story
Every couple is different, and your engagement session is a chance to showcase what makes your relationship special. Maybe it’s the way you laugh together, your shared love for adventure, or the quiet moments you cherish. We’ll capture all those little details that make your story yours.
(Insert image: Couple sharing a quiet, intimate moment in a favorite park or city spot)
4. Use Your Engagement Photos in Creative Ways
Your engagement photos are more than just beautiful images—they’re practical, too! Here’s how couples love to use them:
- Save-the-date cards and invitations
- Wedding websites and social media announcements
- Guest book or wedding décor
- Gifts for family and friends
- Anniversary albums
5. Personalize Your Session
Want to bring your dog? Recreate your first date? Show off your favorite hobby? Engagement sessions are the perfect time to make your photos truly personal. I’m always up for creative ideas—let’s make your session feel like YOU.
How to Prepare for Your Engagement Session
Choose a Meaningful Location
Think about places that matter to you as a couple. Do you love city adventures, quiet nature walks, or cozy at-home vibes? I can suggest some favorite spots in Pittsburgh and throughout Pennsylvania, or we can brainstorm together!
Plan Your Outfits
Coordinating is great, but you don’t have to match exactly. Soft, neutral tones photograph beautifully, but the most important thing is that you feel comfortable and confident. Bring a backup outfit if you want to mix things up, and don’t forget shoes that work for your location.
Relax and Have Fun
Seriously—this is supposed to be FUN! Don’t stress about posing or looking perfect. My approach is relaxed and documentary-style, so I’ll guide you when needed, but I’m also here to capture those candid, in-between moments.
(Insert image: Couple walking hand-in-hand, laughing, with a scenic city or nature backdrop)
What to Expect During Your Engagement Session
A Laid-Back Experience
We’ll spend about 1-2 hours together, exploring your chosen location, chatting, and capturing moments as they unfold. I’ll give gentle direction when needed, but the focus is always on your connection and real emotion.
A Variety of Shots
From wide scenic shots to close-up details, you’ll get a gallery full of variety. I love capturing laughter, quiet moments, and everything in between.
Quick Turnaround
You’ll get a sneak peek within a week, and your full gallery within 3-4 weeks—plenty of time to use your photos for wedding planning and sharing with loved ones.
Engagement Session FAQs
Q: Do we have to do an engagement session?
A: It’s totally optional, but I highly recommend it! Most couples find that it helps them feel more relaxed and confident on their wedding day.
Q: Can we bring pets or props?
A: Absolutely! Pets, props, and personal touches are always welcome.
Q: What if we’re awkward in photos?
A: Trust me—you’re not alone! My job is to help you feel comfortable and capture real moments. Most couples are surprised by how easy and natural it feels.
Real Couple Spotlight
“We were both a little nervous about being in front of the camera, but Kristie made it so easy and fun. Our engagement session felt like a date, and the photos are absolutely gorgeous. We’re so glad we did it!”
— Emily & Jake
Final Thoughts: Why Engagement Sessions Matter
Your engagement session is about more than just pretty pictures. It’s about celebrating your relationship, building confidence, and making memories you’ll treasure forever. Whether you’re planning a big wedding or an intimate elopement, this experience is a gift you give yourselves.
Ready to Book Your Engagement Session?
Let’s make your engagement session unforgettable! Whether you’re in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, or planning a destination celebration, I’d love to help you tell your story with authentic, timeless images.
Reach out today to schedule your session or ask any questions—no pressure, just friendly advice and support.
Contact: kristie@itsamorephotovideo.com
Website: https://itsamorephotovideo.com
Instagram: @Kristiemontroisweddings
